I'm adding support for listening to Add, Update, and Delete operations in the latest version of LINQ to LDAP. This will allow you to perform validation or logging operations before anything is executed. So let's try this out:
There are 3 interfaces that you can implement to subscribe to events: IPreAddEventListener, IPreDeleteEventListener, IPreUpdateEventListener. Each interface has a Notify method that will give you access to the entry being modified (the mapped object, the DirectoryAttributes, or the Distinguished Name in the case of Delete), the LdapConnection used for the modification, and the DirectoryRequest that will be sent. The DirectoryRequest won't have any of the attribute values added since you may want to do validation beforehand. You can also add / modify anything you want about the request.
Using your event listener is pretty straightforward:
When using the LdapConfiguration you can call RegisterListener and it will be used across all DirectoryContexts. When using the LdapConnection extension methods you can pass it in as a parameter. And that's about it.